Everyone who are reading this post , at any instant must have expressed their love to someone. But what do they really mean when they said ” i love you”. Did they really mean it or its just one of the common method to express their feelings.
A very big question of all the times.
What is real love?
The physicist said love is chemistry.
The psychotherapist said love has many guises.
The philospher said love is a passionate commitment.
The romantic novelist said love drives all great stories.
I WILL SAY LOVE IS ENLIGHTNMENT.
Love is not about texting or calling someone.its not about saying ” I LOVE U” thrice a days. Its also not about wishing special days . Neither it means holding hands nor it means giving costly gifts. It’s not necessarily important to call or text your partner daily. We have great examples of people who loved each other, lived for each other and died for each other. Most important mobiles were not available those days. It was just communication between their souls. It was understanding between them. Now-a- day being overpossesive is a trend showing love for their partner but a/q to me its nothing just lack of trust between them.
When someone says that i will love you forever but for that they will ask for a change in yourslef. It means they dont love you at all. Loving somebody is accepting her good and bad. Its about knowing the partner’s flaws but still loving them. Its about knowing the weak point of one another but not about misusing.
Everyone knows in their heart that love is the highest power, that our Higher Self operates as pure, unconditional Love. This Love is beyond mental understanding or simple romantic love, as it is the source of life itself. It is pure wisdom and infinite knowledge. It heals and purifies and gives us strength. It is the very vitality that animates us.
There is no real love in the external world. What the world calls love is nothing but infatuation and attraction. Real love resides within and near the one who has known the Self in all its splendor and glory.
Then question arises what is real love??
Real love begins the moment one begins to understand one’s Real Self ( the soul) .The nature of the Self is love and with such a love, one forgets all one’s problems. Once bound through this love, nothing else can bind you. Real love arises only when the ego and attachment are gone. Real love is something that is born out of absolute non attachement . Real love exists where there is no selfishness; where there are no feelings of ‘yours-mine’. Wherever there is a feeling of’ ‘yours-mine’, there is definitely selfishness as well as ignorance of the Self. Where there is real love, there is no limitation, or separation. It is boundless. When you see faults in them, you cannot love them. So when you see the world as faultless, that is when pure love will arise. Real love should not break under any circumstances.
Many people says that love is blind. Guys and girls they mean people in love have blind faith on each other.
There is a very funny hindi idioms ” dil lagi gadhi se to pari kya chij hai”. And upto some extent this is true outer beauty does not matter when the love is real. What we love is inner beauty of a person.
He who loves the spirit of a female can only truly love one; but he who loves her body, wonβt be content with all the females in the world.
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One who loves girl’s body is only addicted to her…
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Hahahahaha
True that ….indeed !
Agree whole heartedly
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No one can define real luv it can’t be express it can be only feel .
Fav di
Shivam
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Thnx
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Real luv exists
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Yeah! It exists but its hard to find.
Except the parent’s love nothing is real in present scenario.
If present, den rare.
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Love in a word is divine.
We may classify it in ways we can’t even comprehend, but we all want love at the end of the day, we want to be loved, we want so love someone, hold them close and melt away their worries.
Nicely written. π
And I like the ending lines. Beautifully summarized.
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Thnx
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You are welcome. π
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Beautiful! Loved reading through this ! π xo
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Extremely beautiful. Thanks for shearing this.
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Thnx a lot
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This is beautifully written. :’)
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Thnx
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True! Very beautiful.
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Thnx a lot
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You’re welcome
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Love is a feeling just like hunger, care, kindness.
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Ur post is nce bt my que wht is love? Pls gve the ans.
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Insightful !
Well let’s just say, it summarizes a lot of things, yet when you visit to the feelings of love, it differs from time to time.
Yesterday I read about loving someone like you are 16 ! It has a lot of aspect covered in itself. Where you love unconditionally without any prejudices and your body n mind totally experience a different kind of feeling n when u can repeat that again for a person later in your life, I guess that signifies love.
I don’t like to discriminate Love. It is either there or not. There isn’t anything like True Love or Real Love. But again those are just terminology. What u tell is absolutely true. It encompasses what a beautiful feeling love is and the power it withholds. Also you highlight the misuse, weakness, general trend of love, that’s considerable as well.
Overall Intense π
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First of all..Thnx bhanu for your view.
It really means a lot for me. That how you have focused on all the small points that i have written there.
I agree wid ur point.Love is not meant to be discriminated. Where there is discrimination love can not exists. Its something beyond these all.
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Yes sure.
I always try to listen what others have to say and try to incorporate those in my life if they are worth trying.
Love is a very delicately observed feeling, which has been totally confused. Whenever there is a blog about Love, I make sure to read it carefully and appreciate the writer. If I have some confusion, I make sure to add the author, to learn new things. That’s how we grow isn’t it ?
And Love is beautiful in its own form that once cannot stop know how it has transformed lives around the world.
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Smetimes i feel..love just cant be defined… words are not enough to express this lovely feeling but later i think this is one of the best way to express.
Its really vry confused feeling. But everyone wanna go through it. Isn”t this amaging people say love is about pain and everyone wanna feel this pain.
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Masochists ?
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Masochists..
Na its not d right term
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Right. One must make sure not to drink pain all the time.
The kind of pain that comes with love, is not the pain that should sustain with LOVE. The pinching pain shouldn’t cut your skin eventually.
http://wp.me/p3NR8n-qU
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Nice song…
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I wrote π
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That was a french song…translated in to english… wasn”t it
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No. I wrote it myself.
It was not a song exactly, I responded as a comment to a post about love. Then I converted that as post to my blog.
But there might have been songs already written in that flavor. I don’t say no one else wrote this kind, but this one was by myself.
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Well…it was nice
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Thanks π
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Welcome
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Okkk…welll that was nice..
But y should i sing dat?
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Well I wrote it as a poetry or quote. You identified as a song.
Darshith -(not sure his tone of speech or mode, seems sarcastic) asked to share the link
Me – (in a suggestive tone) told him to ask you to song.
Which you may however choose in the way that suits you the most.
It is not a should, it is a choice.
But if you would, you already have two guys waiting to listen.
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Loved d way u r exaplaining…
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Thank you, I get that often π
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Nice …
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I have share of few twisted and blend, stories of Love on my blog, you may share your views, it will help me know what it means.
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Ya ofcourse dear..
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Where there is mention of True/Real love & comes Mr. Bhanu π Kaisa hai bhai? Sahi discussion tha π Loved the article, Mahima π
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Thnx darshit badiyani
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Yes sure, I will be there and try to discuss.
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Yeah because you always wanted to know more and more facts about this confused feeling…what we called love
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No Mam.
There are no facts.
I am clear.
I just want to get into discussions because I want to understand the heart and mind of the souls, who have experienced different forms of love and their interpretation.
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Its alright..may be i used the wrong word for u..but all that i wanted to say is you wanna know more and more about love..thats it dear…
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Sure π
LOVE makes a face like a child thinking about chocolate fountain π
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It just drives us crazy
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Yes, just to be clear, it doesn’t drive me to be crazy in love, but LOVE in itself is so damn a feeling n topic, that I can’t stop sinking myself into it forever now…
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Darshith wants to listen to the love song I wrote, I told him, you may be a good singer ?
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