Last night I was just having conversation with one of my friend whom i never met . In between our conversation he suddenly asked me for a voice clips and i was ok with that but when he compared my voice with a bird. Something else drawn my attention. It was nothing but just the confessions of some people which i read on fb pages.
I am listimg some of the confession that really shocked me.
There was a girl of 18 who confessed her love for a guy whom she met on fb. They were in a relation since last one year. The only problem was that the boy had not seen the girl. They just had conversations. The girl wanted a solution for her problem. you even can not imagine what the problem was. She said after listening her voice , the boy always asked for images of her but she never send her image just because she was not as beautiful as the boy was accepting. She was afraid of loosing him after seeing the pic of her.
This could be digested upto a extent.
This was really a bit wiered. She was a girl ( actually a lesbian , meant no disrespect ) . She had a friend on facebook but she can’t tell her the truth. She is in love with her. They used to talk and share their problems with each other. They are like BFF but the other girl was completely strange about this. The first girl is not telling her the truth just because she do not want to lose her.
This one is the last confession of a boy . I am going to share with you guys. He confessed his love for a girl. They became freind on fb because the girl’s best friend was mutual between them. The wiered part is girl does not see the best friend as his mr. Perfect. But the guy see his world in the girl so he was trying for her by creating a fake id. The amazing part was girl also started loving the guy ( her best friend in real) . When the girl asked for a meeting, the boy was tensed. He was the same guy with whom the girl shared her experience of love with his fake friend. Confusing, isn’t it. Same guy playing two roles !!!
After reading all these confessions, i was like what the hell in going???
What is their concept about love. Is that a interesting game which they wants to play or a matter of necessity for them. In all of the situations one of the two were hiding important issues from the other. Just because they do not wanna lose them. Again, matter to be thought, when they had got them??
They were just Messaging each other and nothing else. Does it mean the world to them. Really???
All the confessions just took me to a single conclusion. That was whenever two people started talking each other without knowing much about each other. The mind started creating image of that person. Its really hard to say up to which extent the image they created is real. No doubt sometimes It may be completely fake. What we need to do is we always have to introduce us in the way we are. As soon as the person next to us started creating image of our, We should let him know what we are in real .There are two possibilities only . Either they will accept us or they will reject us. For us both the options should be taken in similar manner. If we are accepted in the way we are , really we are lucky. If rejected, then will get something much better. Rejection always makes us stornger then before. It always takes you to your best. We should never take it as a negative point.
But if we let them create our image then someday we are going to face a problem.
Ofcourse we will have to , same person having two images, one that is real and other that is created. It will led you to conflict only and nothing else.
Sometimes people hide the truth from their partners just because they do not want to lose them. I can understand their feeling but still i am appealing from those all let them know the truth. Because if they loves you, they will understand and if they dont understand let them go. They do not love u at all.
Love is all about trust and truth. If we are starting a relationship with such a big lie then how can we last longer in a relationship. On the basis of such a big lie we really can not have the person as our life partner.
Love them who loves you. You is not here the created image. YOU means the REAL in you
If you love something then let them go. If they come back to you then it was yours and if they do not come back then they never meant to be yours.