Facing real life situations 👍

good evening to all of you.

This one is long as compared to my other post but guys please go through this. I know everyone would like this. The thing i liked about the post is  i am going to relate it with some real life situation so that other can imagine themself at the places needed.

Before creating the scenes, i would like to clear i am writing the reactions on the basis how most of the people reacts( not all) as there are some execeptions always.

Scene 1# Think of a situation when you saw a beggar on road facing difficulties for his livelihood, old and tore clothes, suffering from malnutrition.

# REACTION :-

(1) we feel pity for them either we just ignore them like they never matters.

(2) Some people instead of giving the beggar money starts abusing them( i had seen) like “they themselves are responsible for their pathetic condition. They can earn money by other means, still they choose begging”.

👉 IF WE ARE ASKED HOW DO WE FEEL ABOUT OUR LIFE AS COMPARED TO THEM (BEGGARS)

WELL OUR ANSWER IS, WE ARE SO THANKFUL TO GOD THAT HE BLESSED US WITH A LIFE BETTER THAN THEM. WE DO NOT HAVE TO FACE CHALLENGES FOR OUR LIVELIHOOD. THINGS ENDS WITH A GOOD FEELING AFTERALL ITS HUMAN NATURE , TO BECAME HAPPY WHENEVER GETS A FEELING OF BEING SUPERIOR THAN OTHERS.

Scene 2# Think of a completely different situation, a millionaire in his car stopping near a restaurant.

#REACTION :-

(1)We start feeling pity for us here we just get fail to ignore them.

(2) Here we do not think what they had done for reaching up to this level, we just get jealous of them and yeah there are some people who always had a bad story related to those person, like how did they make this money 😛

👉 AGAIN THE SAME QUESTION, HOW DO WE FEEL ABOUT OUR LIFE AS COMPARED TO THEM( MILLIONAIRE)

AS PER HUMAN PSYCHOLOGY, MOST OF THE PEOPLE STARTS BLAMING GOD FOR NOT PROVIDING THEM WITH SUCH A LUXURIOUS LIFE. THEY START HATING THEMSELF. THEY JUST THINK THEIR CONDITION IS PATHETIC. THEY ARE POOR.

COMING TO THE PROBLEMS :-

👉 MOST OF THE PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE CONSISTENCY IN THEIR THOUGHT. FOR THE SAME LIFE ,THEY CAN BE THANKFUL TO GOD AT ONE TIME AND NEXT  TIME THEY CAN BLAME GOD.

👉 NO ONE WANTS TO ACCEPTS THEM AS INFERIOR.

👉 AS PER HUMAM NATURE MOST OF THE PEOPLE CAN NOT SUPPORT THOSE WHO WANTS TO RAISE HIGH.

👉 WE JUST SHOUT ON THAT PERSON ABOUT WHOM WE KNOW, THEY WOULD NOT RESPOND.

SOLUTIONS I FOUND :-

👉 CONSITENCY, YES WE WILL HAVE TO BRING THAT IN US. IT IS NECESSARY ALMOST IN EVERYTHING WE ARE DOING. NO MATTER WHAT IS GOING ALL AROUND, WE JUST HAVE TO FOCUS ON US. WE TOO ARE HUMAN LIKE OTHER, IF SUPERIOR THEN OK AND IF NOT THEN WE WILL BE LIKE THEM SOMEDAY, IF WE TRY OUR BEST. WHAT IF WE DO NOT BECOME THE SAME AS WE WANTED TO ,EVEN  THE FINGERS OF HAND ARE NOT EQUAL.

👉 SUPERIOR AND INFERIOR, TAKE THEM AS TERMS ONLY DO NOT LET THESE TERMS OBSTRUDE YOU. I AM NOT SAYING THAT EVEN DO NOT TRY, THAT IS MUST. BUT INSTEAD OF GETTING JEALOUS OF OTHERS OR FEELING PITY FOR YOURSELF JUST THINK CALMY, WHAT THEY HAD DONE AND WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. GIVE YOUR BEST TO FILL THAT GAP.

👉 BE SUPPORTIVE AND BE POSITIVE, EVEN I DO NOT SUPPORT THE WRONG THINGS BUT IT NEVER MEANS I DON’T SUPPORT THE GOOD THINGS.

👉 NO NEED TO SHOUT ON THEM, WHERE NO ONE IS LISTENING TO YOU. IF YOU REALLY FEEL THAT YOUR VOICE CAN MAKE A DIFFERENE THAN USE IT AT THE RIGHT PLACE. LET YOU VOICE BE USED RATHER THAN WASTED.

So guys do yo find this post useful or not??

Must share your thoughts. I welcome critics too☺☺

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42 thoughts on “Facing real life situations 👍

  1. Akshitha says:

    A wonderful post on life and people in general.I agree with you totally. 🙂 I think we should all be thankful for what we have,try and help others who have nothing .We should always look at those below us when we feel dissatisfied with life.Like the beggars and people living on the streets.This is what my mother tells me always 🙂

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  2. saalai kamalathaai says:

    This is something different from your usual proceedings. Congratulations! You made it! You made many of us to think!! It is very deep. I simply loved your writing style. We neither don’t need to pity nor get envy, stay contended. very strongly placed. 😊👍

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  3. ajaykohli says:

    Nobody wants to fail ,still people fail ,nobody wants to lose ,still people lose ,nobody wants to suffer pain still people suffer ,answer is not in consistency ,superiority etc ,its much more deep .

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    • mahimasingh97 says:

      Even i know that no body wants to fail still they fails.

      Do not forget the words you said..”everthing is within you”. If you wanna feel happy then you will find a reason to smile, if you want to forget your painful past, you can make your present happy.

      People have different mindsets. Some would find this helpful, some would not but its all their choice. I just shared what i feel.

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    • mahimasingh97 says:

      Thanx for sharing your views and i would be more thankful if you just raise the point you mentioned about.

      Even i wanna know, what could be the exact answer then?

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      • ajaykohli says:

        We are nothing more than programmed soft wares ,we are governed by karmas ,nothing personal but you had bad three years ,they were not invited ,still it happened ,its programmed for you ,its very deep so I corelate astrology ,psychology which to an extent answers but not all .

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      • mahimasingh97 says:

        Yeah i agree we are programmed device..everything is planned for us..but we do not know it earlier so we just can not wait for our good or bad time.

        You are a life coach that is why you can related them to those things and i respect that.

        I am a simple girl neither an astrologer nor pscychologist . That is why i found those method to hadle the situatuion and that is it.

        Thank you for sharing your perspective☺

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  4. Akhila says:

    To be at the right place at right time, makes us to do the right thing.. this is my theory and i experienced it many a time..

    Your post is really thought provoking.. thumbs up..

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